A Little Bit About Me
Assalaamu Alaikum
Eek, this is awkward.....Lemme see how I can 'describe' myself without repeating what everyone says/writes....
This is an A to Z of what I feel is needed to make a strong marriage. Please note, I only seek what I am willing and able to give/be. Here goes.....
A - Attraction, adventure, amusement, awesomeness, aceptance
B - Bags (there are many ways to say sorry, handbags is one (; )
C - Commitment, compassion, consideration
D - Dutiful, desserts (i'm a keen baker, so i'll do the desserts)
E - Empathy, excitement, enthusiasm
F - Faithful, funny, fire
G - Genuine, good
H - Honest, honourable, helpful, holiday(s)
I - Imaan, integrity, intuitive
J - Jealousy (within limits), jewels (because, everyone likes jewels occasionally (; )
K - Kindness
L - Love, laughter, longing, loyalty
M - Moral, manners, magic, madness
N - Naughtiness (in all aspects)
O - Outgoing
P - Partnership, parenthood, passion
Q - Queen (that's me, of the house Insha'Allah)
R - Respect, randomness (lots)
S - Sensitivity, strong, silliness, sunshine, sand, sea (can you see where i'm going with this one...??)
T - Travel, time
U - Understanding
V - Values, vienetta (running out of ideas....)
W - Water fights?? (help needed for this one)
X - Xylophone, because every household needs one!! (;
Y - Youthfulness (you don't have to actually be young to be youthful, just your attitude and behaviour, rather than 'i'm so old blah blah'
Z - Zeal (for dean), zest (citrus and for life)
I hope the above gave you a (light hearted) insight and idea of what I feel constitutes a healthy/strong marriage...
I'm a qualified midwife (this year) and mother to an amazing little boy Alhumdulillah.
Please do not contact me if your parents are/will NOT be happy with you bringing home a single mama....!!
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What I Am Looking For
As stated earlier, I seek only what I offer and am willing to do for my new spouse.
Again, I am a single parent, repeat, a single parent, so if this is something you/your family will not be happy or comfortable with, please stick to the foot loose and fancy free sisters...I don't have time to waste.
Insha'Allah, I have a lot to offer my husband....just need to find him/you now.... :)
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